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How to be a great host
Socialising etiquette
The best friendships require effort, respect and initiative. In making sure this happens in our community, always, we have a few golden rules.
People won't want to join our plans if they know nothing about us. Give yourself the best chance for success by crafting an authentic profile, being thorough in your answers, and most of all, keeping it updated.
We're all have a lot going on in our lives, so when you're creating a plan, give people enough time to plan their diary around it. Two weeks in advance is often a great approach.
People won't want to join our plans if they know nothing about us. Give yourself the best chance for success by crafting an authentic profile, being thorough in your answers, and most of all, keeping it updated.
There's a lot to be said about 'selling the dream'. Get others excited about your plan by providing plenty of detail about why you've created it, the agenda, and of course, yourself. Bonus points for great cover photos.
No one likes a flake. When it comes to responding to RSVPs and messages, we suggest replying within 2 hours to ensure your guests and friends know you're interested and engaged.
We're all have a lot going on in our lives, so when you're creating a plan, give people enough time to plan their diary around it. Two weeks in advance is often a great approach.
Setting regular catch-ups not only helps others to plan their schedules, but also keeps you connected and puts your new friendship on autopilot.
Especially important when plans are being hosted in someone's home: a little gift goes a long way. Take a look at our article, What to bring when you're told not to bring a thing'.
No one likes a flake. When it comes to responding to RSVPs and messages, we suggest replying within 2 hours to ensure your guests and friends know you're interested and engaged.
Especially important when plans are being hosted in someone's home: a little gift goes a long way. Take a look at our article, What to bring when you're told not to bring a thing'.
There's a lot to be said about 'selling the dream'. Get others excited about your plan by providing plenty of detail about why you've created it, the agenda, and of course, yourself. Bonus points for great cover photos.
Setting regular catch-ups not only helps others to plan their schedules, but also keeps you connected and puts your new friendship on autopilot.
No one likes a flake. When it comes to responding to RSVPs and messages, we suggest replying within 2 hours to ensure your guests and friends know you're interested and engaged.
Especially important when plans are being hosted in someone's home: a little gift goes a long way. Take a look at our article, What to bring when you're told not to bring a thing'.
There's a lot to be said about 'selling the dream'. Get others excited about your plan by providing plenty of detail about why you've created it, the agenda, and of course, yourself. Bonus points for great cover photos.
Setting regular catch-ups not only helps others to plan their schedules, but also keeps you connected and puts your new friendship on autopilot.
What's your earliest memory of food? Where was it? How old were you?
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What's something you've learned about yourself in the past year that has had a significant impact on your life?
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Can you share a moment or experience in your life that you feel has shaped who you are today?
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Is there a tradition from your cultural or family background that you cherish? Why is it important to you?
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What would you say is the core value or belief that guides your decisions in life the most?
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What's the kindest thing someone has ever done for you? Who were they?
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Prompts and starters
A collection of thoughtful conversation starters to help you when you get stuck.
How to be a great host
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A mid-week dinner party
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An alcohol-free cocktail tasting
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Dinner at a BYO Chinese restaurant
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Beers and burgers
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Alcohol-free Friday night 'wind down' wines
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Coffee and brunch
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Italian pasta-making night or cooking class
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A pot luck dinner
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A lazy Sunday long lunch
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Yoga in the park
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Sunday morning run club
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A night at the footy
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A reformer pilates class
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A weekend golf trip
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Tennis practice
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A social netball group
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Weights and a gym session
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A weekend bike trail
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A monthly book club
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A movie marathon, themed to an actor's filmography (e.g. a night dedicated to Brad Pitt's classics)
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An art gallery or museum trail
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Japanese and karaoke night
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A pre-work dog walk
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A lunchtime coffee run
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A trip to the farmer's market
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Jazz nights
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Op shopping
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Cook book club
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A monthly pottery class
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An amateur DJ session
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Weekly journalling and goal setting
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A jewellery-making lesson
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Friday night candle-painting and goss
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Weekend unwind music and drawing
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Photography trails
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Your next plan, sorted.
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